Just last week, I've read a column re-posted by some of my girl friends about dating someone who loves you more. You could check it out on the link below:
I love you pineaPAUL. With all my heart. <3
So I've thought it over, is it really better for you to find someone who loves you more? It would be very unfair for guys if I'd give a response on a girl's point of view but hey! I'm a girl. So yes, nothing beats the feeling of having someone who loves you more.
I have felt it because someone made me feel it. For the longest time, he's made me feel that he loves me so much more than I love him. But what if another side of me feels another thing? What if I feel that I love him more? That, my friend is what I call "love in its best form". Love should not be measured by who is loving more. Trying to balance it out in order to find the answer will leave you frustrated and discontented because this is the time when the I-did-this-why-didn't-he-do-it or the when-do-I-get-to-be-the-more-important-one. Comparing the love you think you can give from the love you're getting will get you nowhere (but that's different from getting no love at all).
I say contentment and unconditional love is the key. No comparing, just pure lovin'.
Right now, what I wish is that all of you who are reading this will find the happiness you deserve just as I found mine.
Someone who cares for you so much they forget to care about themselves.
Someone who thinks you're beautiful even when you're really sweaty trying to catch the train. Someone who would take the extra mile to cheer you up because seeing you sad doubles the sadness for him.
Someone who kisses you even if you think you're like a dead walker coughing, just because your sickness is his as well.
Someone who plans nice and stupid things, even the nicknames of the kids you'll have.
Someone who sees the best in you when it seems like you're carrying the weight of the world. Someone you can do everything with, literally.
When you find that someone, don't let it go. Never.
Have fights. Cry. Shout. Shout back. But then, kiss. Kiss some more. Return. Stay.
With Paul, there is nothing more I could ask for. He saved me and I'll forever be thankful.
I love you pineaPAUL. With all my heart. <3
-Ellie
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